Tuesday, October 25, 2011

How do you get a husband to leave?I am in an awful relationship and he just won't leave! How do I make him go?

He claims that I can't make him leave no matter what I do. He's from another country and won't be visiting his relatives for awhile, otherwise I would just change the locks and put him out! Help!!
How do you get a husband to leave?I am in an awful relationship and he just won't leave! How do I make him go?
You leave then, file for divorce the day you do so (this will require pre-planning of course) and the judge will split the assets between you two.
How do you get a husband to leave?I am in an awful relationship and he just won't leave! How do I make him go?
Then you leave - call your family or a friend, if its that horrible get out
You serve him with divorce papers and have him escorted out and off the property
There are some laws in place here. My father married a lady from another country and they told him that when you marry someone and bring them here if you divorce then you have to financially support them for 2 years, so needless to say my father is still married and miserable. good luck. you just move it if its that bad. men are assholes. but if you have children he cannot kick you out and you legally get the place because the kids will stay with you, so he legally has to leave.
If he won't leave then you need to leave. File for divorce and get a restraining order if he is dangerous.
get a legal separation from him, go to court and file an eviction to have him removed. then follow through with the divorce. hopefully before you do all that, that your house or apartment is in your name. its against the law to change the locks if he went out of town, thats an illegal eviction.
Get a lawyer and have him served



Look in the yellow ages under divorce lawyers



Lots of women claim the same thing, but do not really want to leave



If you really want to leave the relationship, nothing can stop you



Make your decision, and pursue it, talk is cheap
pack your bags and get out
Buy the house from him.

You /can't/ make him leave - good for him!
I am afraid that I agree with Pink Unicorn.



Does he work, or is he out for regular ours.



If the answer is yes. Get a van round when he is out pack your stuff into it and go.



Will take a little planning, finding somewhere to go to, but do it.



Take your courage in your hands. If the property you are in is in joint ownership then you can go to a solicitor to get your half of the value.



Go get some legal advice.



Make a move.
Depending on the state you're living in, even with divorce papers he doesn't have to move out.



You move out. You leave him. Psychologically the person who leaves is the victor. Think about it.



Work, make money, hide it, make a plan and you GO! Girl you need to find your balls.



Breathe, relax and make a plan. Make him think everything is cool. Be the beautiful actress you know you can be. Do what do have to do to get where you want to be. Have a plan. Women are way more resourceful then men. Always have been and always will be.
MM maybe you should go stay with some freinds for a while until he goes back with his relatives. it seems to be like a bit of an exuse even though it may be true and will probally think of another exuse after that. your going to be even more stressed out living under the same roof. This maybe your house but he will feel uneasy been in your house alone. You carnt let him treat you like this and if it gets worse you should try phone the police. This could go on for ages if nothing is sorted soon. I really hope things work out for you x
As long as you don't file for separation or divorce he doesn't have to leave. You have to have an order or separation before you can make him leave.
if you want him gone that bad you could always hit yourself in the face, call the police and tell him he hit you. he'd be arrested and out of the house. not a nice thing to do, but if you hate him that much, then who cares?
just go!, or change the locks when he goes to the shops/pub/work etc.